It’s a pleasure to meet you.

My name is Amber Eros and I do sexual healing and erotic liberation work. I have been studying and working within the field of trauma healing for the past 15 years. I have studied countless modalities and learned from dozens of beautiful mentors. And I have spent the past 5 years merging the worlds of trauma healing and sacred sexuality through one-on-one coaching and group facilitation.

And what I have learned is that:

Sexual liberation is a path to profound healing in every area of your life.

I don’t do this work because I’m crazy about sex. I do this work because I am wildly passionate, and deeply devoted to your healing.

I believe that pleasure (and learning how to give your own body big, beautiful experiences of pleasure) is truly medicinal.

I believe that sexual liberation can be a pathway to:

  • True self love (not just the theory, but the embodied practice of it)

  • Deep self worth (not just in theory, but the embodied practice of it)

  • Profound personal power (not just in theory, but the embodied practice of it)

  • A life in which you actually feel ALIVE (not just in theory, but the embodied practice of it) 

You are worthy of this.  

I do not perceive pleasure as some superficial, frivolous, sinful activity. Far from it. I know that pleasure is medicine. Pleasure has the power to heal us. 

Inside of my Eros Club community, we are exploring pleasure in all of its forms and facets: 

  • Pleasure as a tool for nervous system regulation. 

  • Pleasure as a tool for our mental and emotional health 

  • Pleasure as a tool for resilience and wellbeing during times of collective chaos 

  • Pleasure as a path to liberation

A little bit about my own personal healing journey... 

Some may assume that I do sexual healing work because I was born some sort of magical, sexually empowered, effortlessly orgasmic angel. This could not be further from the truth.

I do this work because I lived so much of my life struggling with my sexual well being. I was having sex from a place of deep unworthiness and self loathing. I was having sex based off of what I had learned in television and movies and music and porn. I was performing. I was having sex to earn love. I was having sex to prove my worth. I was having sex for other’s pleasure instead of my own. I was deeply disempowered. I was sexually active for six years before I began to feel any physical pleasure at all. I felt disconnected from my body and myself. I felt numb.

I know what it is like to feel sexually lost. And I also know what it is like to sexually heal. And it changed my entire life in ways I never expected.

Through my own sexual healing journey, I learned, for the first time in my life, how to really love myself. I learned how to be present with myself. I learned how to give myself experiences of bliss in ways that were really healthy. I learned how to care for myself. I learned how to nourish myself. I learned how to honor my desires, communicate my needs and enforce my boundaries. I learned how powerful I am. I learned how worthy I am.

The most beautiful gift that I received is that I learned how to feel alive. Like, really, really alive. As someone who lived with symptoms of depression from early childhood, this meant everything to me.

For most of my life, I felt like I was a fish in a fish bowl, looking out on the world but not able to touch it. Sacred sexuality practices turned my life from sepia tone to vivid color. My life force energy flooded back into my body in ways that still bring me tears of gratitude to this day. Pleasure taught me about the joy of being alive and that I am worthy of that joy.

Throughout my life, I have had the privilege of engaging in so many different modalities of healing. And each one of them played a sacred role in my journey. But above all, pleasure healed me.

Of course, I still experience pain in my life. But my pleasure practices empower me to move through the challenges of life with greater nervous system regulation and far more ease.

Nowadays, I live a multi-orgasmic life. The sex that I have with my partner is deeply fulfilling and truly soul nourishing for me. But most importantly, I have healed my relationship to myself and to life itself. My relationship to life is both intimate and erotic. I feel so alive and to me, this is the ultimate gift.

I offer this work from a deeply humbled place. I am intimately familiar with every facet of the struggle because I have lived it. And as a result, I will never judge you for what you are experiencing.

I hold space from a place of tender love and compassion. You are so worthy of bliss. And I am so excited to witness you blossom and unfold in your beautiful evolution.

My Mentors and Teachers:

Layla Martin of the Tantric Institute for Integrated Sexuality

Marina Nabao

Leigh Sienna

Cory Scott

Amanda Testa

Erika Alsborn

Carolyn Eliott in the field of Existential Kink, Hermeticism and Alchemy

Laila Bernard

Lucy Baldwin